When I wanted to end the relationship with my ex-wife I wanted to file for divorce a.s.a.p.--it took less than 48 hours from me telling a process server that was my desire to my ex-wife actually being served. It's mysterious how often WASs and LBSs spouses who *really want* a divorce take months to begin.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Protect yourself. He is not looking out for your best interest. Only you can do that.
Yes, her husband is a liar and has retained his own attorney (not a shared attorney) to protect his interests.
KitCat, it sounds like you've been through a divorce rodeo before. Your attorney will probably begin with financial discovery where your ex is required to list every asset and source of income he owns under penalty of perjury--a bit different than you asking, when he lie or omit things. Then they'll "ask" for 50% of all assets plus something like 33% of any income he makes beyond yours.