she doesn't really process anything and she still is giving me trickle truths and/or lies.
You hit the nail on the head.. Typical WW behaviour..
Communication will not make anything go away - communication isnt the issue. The issue is that your wife has gone. Get used to the lies - 99% of what she says now will be lies..
Alls you can do is drop the rope and work on YOU - not for her - For YOU.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.