Forget about her social media. It means nothing. It's not helping you. She's doing it to justify her affair and her horrible, but typical WW actions. Delete your Facebook. Be mysterious. GAL. Stop worrying about her. Stop thinking about her. Stop trying to analyze her moves. Your story is so similar to the thousands of situations that have come through here. You need to absorb a lot of information quickly.
I'm reading the forums more than i'm reading the bible now. And i'm starting on the DR as I just received it a couple of hours ago... And yes, I need to stop my nonsense in trying to figure her out. Thanks for pulling me back ovrrnbw...
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Maybe your forgot your first post where you mention she is staying out all night, drinking, spending, getting tattoos and texting another man whose family is trying to get your W to back off?
Yes that's the coworker but I do not have hard evidence that they are having EA or PA, the only source of info i got was from the family members of the coworker reaching out to me. That's actually incriminating enough but I don't know why I am still giving her the benefit of doubt. Maybe I'm still trying to grasp whatever little hope I have that she's no longer the same person i married.
And again, really thank you all for the support. Even though we are thousand of miles apart I can feel you guys rooting me on!
Last edited by Ahkuei; 03/10/2003:27 PM.
M(36), W(36), D(6), D(4) M-7, T-8 Bomb Drop - Nov 28, 2019 W requested separation - Sep 30, 2020