I think the point is do you think her attending MC by herself every other week is going to "fix" her?
No but she has stated she has a lot of work to do on herself. She is seeing her IC in addition to MC. And the last MC session, the night after her IC session, she was more emotionally available than ever before. I feel like the two together will help her out if her fog while keeping boundaries between us.
I am seeing the MC tonight by myself to see what he thinks. Before I proposed Tgi's he said coming together will help us process this for the sake of our daughter, at he very least.