I have to agree with DnJ and peace...no to him taking D3 on a trip at the moment. He is not in the right frame of mind to do so...and who is to say that he doesn't want someone else to meet his daughter? Absolutely not!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.