Need advice on stubborn W

[AKuei]

Thanks for the kind advice os2. To be frank i don't know if there's an OM involved but I'm treating as it exists.

She did offer to show me her phone contents but back then I didn't want to call her bluff so I didn't ask for it.

It's going to be hard for her NOT to interact to the OM because the OM i suspect is her coworker.

And now she's expressing her feelings on Facebook for everyone to see by posting those "inspirational quotes" on her page. Most of them were quotes about "Trust being broken and hard to mend it" or "Leave, don't continue watering a dead flower"

And the most recent ones were "Loneliness is dangerous. It's addictive. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people."

This is not the first that she's voicing her discontent on FB for our friends and relatives to see. We've had a fight before about this and now she's starting it again. I'm not going to fall into that again and undo what I've done so far. I just can't understand what's the point of her doing that; is it for me? Or is it to show to someone else that she's all alone in her quest?

And her mood swings are getting unpredictable these few days. One day she will be cordial and just tonight, she had a face so black that it seems like someone tripped her wires. I kinda broke the LRT by asking what's wrong (yeah, i regret it a little) and she just said nothing happened.

By the way, finally received the DR book via amazon today; it's gonna be a long night for me!

Oh one more thing; she has a last drinking with her girlfriends this sat and she's not setting any new events from then on. But I'm wary because she will do things randomly now. I hope she doesn't go out that much so she can spend more time with the kids to be honest. But it's not for me to control.