What typically works is counter-intuitive. This is one big onion that you have to peel. One layer at a time. Use DR as a foundation for positive changes in your behavior.
What women find attractive is not what most guys believe. Do your research and start making changes to be attractive. Most of it comes down to the way you behave and interact with her.
Understand the difference between seduction and attraction. Also work on becoming seductive.
She thinks she knows you. Your job right now is to prove her wrong and surprise her. You do this by changes in your behavior. Not your words.
If I was in your shoes, I would do everything that Steve85 and AS advise. They are two active vets that know their stuff. Keep an eye on the number of posts made by people. The higher the number, the higher I would weigh their advise.
Job and sandi2 are wise ladies that are active posters as well.
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