I got left for OW after 30 years. He doesn't know that we all know and doesn't know I'm divorcing him. Has no idea S19 caught him.
He's one of those grumpy people, judgemental, and not all that fun to be around. Gets tired easily, works a lot, thinks money buys happiness. He was fun when it was something he wanted to do but that made me feel used (sex). Honestly it's not a huge loss having him gone but it bothers me monumentally that he's with OW. The kids miss their previous lifestyle but not him personally. It didn't have to be this way but I could never get him to see that. He blamed everything on me and walked out. It hurts.
