Glad you're making a shift towards acceptance, too. You're starting to see the benefits of being single.
> XW: Please make sure you.. > XH: Maybe you should.. > XW: Maybe you should.. > XH: Make sure to.. > XH: these type of reminders need to stop
lol. Some clever exchanges, and a comedy of attempts by ex's to control each other.
I like that your XW keeps things cordial by changing subjects when things get heated: "XW: I would tell you to have a nice day, but you will probably have a $hitty day,… pun intended", and "XW: How is S2?"
Originally Posted by IHCLACS
I know this sounds crazy to most of you here but I have to be friends with my ex-wife if I'm ever going to respect her as a whole person, and if I'm ever going to look at her in a positive light as a good person.
PS - I don't know that one needs to be friends with their ex-wife. You know you, but I wouldn't describe my ex-wife as a friend. As with some business acquaintances, we have enough trust and communication to get our common work done. My assessment of her as a "good" or "bad" person is irrelevant.