These are the words my X used when I was focused on getting my kids into therapy: "I still think they would benefit more from having parents that love and support them."
That was about the last dig on me from her. By that point, I was not taking the bait anymore. That was 5 years after D. That statement was made about 5 years ago.
Be patient. Don't take the bait.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712