WW Patience, Limbo amd Fear

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I'm confused myself again on what I should be doing while at home with W. I am 99 percent sure OM is out of the picture. I know for a fact she is on the fence. As a reminder, W asked to recon but got spooked. Since then we've been more friendly and talk daily about more than the kids. No real emotional or physical connection.

I'm keeping on validating, boundaries, 180s. I'm still debating filing myself. Do i go back to basics for now? It seems like being friendlier is at least more peaceful than when we didnt interact. Once we got friendlier, I think that may be what moved her a little away from 100 percent certain she wants to D.