Originally Posted by kml
I'm living well and that's really the best revenge.


SO MUCH THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To rooskers point, yes, hearing "it will get better" doesn't help the hurt you feel right now, but what I think we are all trying to do is help you see past where you are right now and help you understand that there is "life out there" so to speak. Every time I read one of your posts, I hear that Reba McEntire song in my head "Is There Life Out There?" There is a part of the song that says "There's a place in the sun where she's never been; where life is fair and time is a friend; would she do it the same as she did back then; she looks out the window and wonders again". I'm not trying to speak for everyone else, but I think the people commenting are trying to tell you, kas, that there IS life out there. It's ok to feel sad and hurt and broken and down, but use this as motivation to push yourself forward to live your best life for your sake and your childrens' sake. Hugs, lady!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids