He is just going to be angry at me NO MATTER WHAT.
I can do nothing right or better.... he will find ways to make things my fault.
He is completely done with me. He is not wanting to work with me over the financials. He is now starting to block my access to more stuff including our joint account.
He can move out... he has already moved on. His only justification in leaving is to convince himself he hates me. There is no hope in saving this M.