DR lists out several types of pursuit and the LBS is always like a child asking the teacher for an exception. Texting her every day is pursuit. I would stop texting her altogether. The LRT is super easy:
Do you mean, stop initiating non-essential conversations via text altogether?
Because, of course, I have to communicate with her about our daughter at times.
I have been letting her initiate anything the last few days if it wasn't something important (which nothing has been over the weekend). And I was doing less last week.
She has a couple of times in the last week offered to do something for me, without my asking, or implying that it was something I thought about.
