Nice Girl Syndrome--I was just Googling the term for the female version.
Short form: If I pick up someone's coffee just because, I'm a nice person. If I pick up someone's coffee with unstated expectations--they'll buy me one next time OR they'll be more talkative/friendly/nice--that's nice guy/girl syndrome. There's nothing nice about covert contracts.
I wonder if your generosity could be directed towards more deserving people--firemen, co-workers, people down on their luck, CWarrior, random people you pass on the street who aren't cheating on you. Maybe the next time you feel like waking him up you could instead do a random act of kindness!
A kind heart is wonderful. I hope you stay true to that!
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm going to shout at him TO LEAVE ME ALONE.
You've gotten at least a few suggestions to stop answering calls and slow down on answering texts.
Sorry you're morning is off to a hard start. ((Hugs))
