Still married couple from Scandinavia Part 2

[BenB]

Hi Jason,

I will NEVER again date to help my detachment! Now is about becoming the best version of yourself. If you run away from your feelings, you would be missing out on a golden opportunity to grow.

I didn´t understand this when I was younger and the aha moment wasn´t until I found this forum and started reading the threads and books that were recommended. Yes, you will detach quicker if you meet other women but you are skipping important steps you need to take by doing so.

I am going out on dates but that was mostly just initially after W moved out(I hadn´t had sex in many months!). Now I haven´t been intimate with anyone in a few months and I´m not searching(swiping) much. I can literally feel myself becoming stronger and more confident every day.