Captain, take it from someone that was able to start a new relationship with a new version of my W.
Read Steve's story when you get a chance. He reconciled, and he was a frequent poster throughout so it'll give you a great idea of what you will go through in the coming months. It's a long, difficult process, whether you reconcile or not.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
1. Stop pursuit 2. GAL 3. Wait and see.
And most of all- be patient. DB'ing requires a crazy amount of patience. People will try 1-3 and then add their own 4- "give it a day or two or three and then start pursuing again and temperature check her". Do that and it resets you all the way back to 0. People will do that over and over until they finally figure out that it isn't working and they need to detach. Detaching is really difficult, but critical.
