Ex and I have no actual conflict since I don’t want to be bothered - except for the money he owes. I realize how happy I am not to be with him. He is so sneaky. Seems like such a great guy and is so good at deflecting and not being present but seeming great. My son wanted more time with him - so I told ex at the request of my sons that he was feeling bad. And asked him if he wanted To see him a few extra hours 1 day a week after work. He said no he can’t - but twisted it and kept texting me asking how long long I have known that son was upset about this - and how I need to bring this up earlier to him. And asking why he was feeling this way.... it’s cause son is seeing how much time my bf spends with his kids and wanted to know why his dad doesn’t do the same. But I didn’t say that and maybe I should have. I waited till son asked me to say something. And it didn’t even matter. They did go away on a vacation together though so hopefully son feels good about that.
Apparently ex is on to another girl cause last gf seems to have discovered he was not being honest with her. (Figures that out through the innocent musings of my son) My own relationship has been just amazing so far. It’s the first time I felt chemistry for someone. I feel like he meets my needs and love languages. I love how he is with children and my family. It’s just been really good so far. I can’t believe I finally know what it feels like to be in a good relationship with someone. I am struggling to balance a relationship with my own work ambitions and keeping my sons interests first though. That’s been tough.
