Needing to pull a last resort

[ovrrnbw]

DR lists out several types of pursuit and the LBS is always like a child asking the teacher for an exception. Texting her every day is pursuit. I would stop texting her altogether. The LRT is super easy:

1. Stop pursuit
2. GAL
3. Wait and see.

It's like losing weight. Simple isn't easy. You need discipline and commitment.

I'd read all those link, several times. You need to give her space and time. You need that for yourself too. Focus on your healing and growth. Read the other threads here. You may read something good that you can use in your situation.