How's things FS? Gosh, but this whole thing is so EXHAUSTING isn't it? I can kind of understand now how people get Ded in a massive rush, there is so much uncertainty when things drag out indefinitely. I know someone who got Ded just after my H left and she went straight into a new serious R and says how happy she is. But then both she and her ex were in agreement that they wanted D. I don't know how common that is. One person not wanting it and one person not being sure if they want it makes things a whole lot more complicated doesn't it? Anyway, I hope things are going ok for you, the mediation and negotiating with someone unwilling to be reasonable sounds extra hard, particularly if D isn't what you want (())
