It's still feeling pretty icy the last few days.

However, I can't just link it to me stopping asking her how she's doing. I had asked a friend of hers a few weeks ago to speak with her, because I was concerned about depression (or something), and she responded that she would reach out to her. Then, I didn't hear anything for a few weeks, and suddenly my wife texted me and let me know they were meeting for dinner.

I was able to email the friend before they met to suggest she not discuss what I mentioned and just have a normal friendly dinner, but I don't know what she had said at any point leading up to their dinner.