Nothing much happened these couple of days except that she went out celebrating her colleagues’s birthday and I supposed there was drinking because she came home around 3am.

I was on full on LRT mode and even though that night where she went drinking I was miserable I lived thru it.

Fast forward to today. There were some slight changes in her but I was wary that it might be a false start.

She changed her mind about staying over at her friends place next week and replaced it with just dinner and drinks. She was more comfortable with me standing close together, and she seemed to want to hang out with me and the kids. She also talked more about her new hairstyle and things she needs to buy. And before we go to bed she was complaining to me about her work and how she is going to look for another job. Interestingly this conversation lasted a good 30 mins.

This is all very new to me and I’m not sure if I’m reading it correctly. Is this a false start or is this a sign of things improving? I’m not going to stop DBing that’s for sure...

Anyone out there with similar situations can give me some pointers?

M(36), W(36), D(6), D(4)
M-7, T-8
Bomb Drop - Nov 28, 2019
W requested separation - Sep 30, 2020