Gotta love the idiocy of the walk away mentality. "I want to separate. But oh, I want you to do everything for me the way you used to." All you can do is chuckle and shake your head.
Well, I think he is NOT wanting my help but then is flailing about. I'm sure he is having anxiety about how high the credit card has gotten since all this went down. A $30 charge here, a $60 dollar charge there - all his of course and now we are at over 3K for the month. The anxiety is coming out as anger and he is clearly in a A-fog state so how is this HIS problem???
I truly believe the phone call was because 'how dare I leave him unable to figure this out for himself'. A little mini pity party... and then the realization that he still needs to pay me X when he gets here for the rest of his financial obligations.
I need to stop helping him. That's why I stated HE can call the bank on Monday.
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KC, trust me on this, if you do end up D'd you will look back one day and wonder why you tried so hard to hang on.
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Bite your tongue!!!! I'm at a point to today where I am distancing myself more from H but I am still have hope for R. We shall see... time will tell.
