Maybe not. But whats the worst that can happen? Do you think I would go into depression? Also If I wait for her to do it, and she does it, I think I will wish I had.
Short update and question: Me and W have since Tuesday had Zero contact, except for her once asking if kids are alright, until today (Saturday). She is away in another city for the weekend and asked if it is ok that she stays at a friend (female she is travelling with) on Sunday, and then take the kids on Monday. Really do NOT understand what is happening as it would be standard for me to have the kids all weekend with our current setup. She doesn't have to ask me that...
Have not responded yet. Any suggestions? Will probably say something like: "You getting the kids from school on Monday would be normal so I don't see that you really need to ask."
Now back to fixing D1's room.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021