SamCal, I've been following your sitch some but haven't posted, and I'm so glad to see it swinging this way.
Originally Posted by SamCal
He said he can see that I do value him as a person, and apologized for not believing that I could work on myself and turn things around. He opened up about how no one in his life who has loved him but treated him poorly some times (parents, boss) has been able to actually change how they are treating him, and that was a lot of why he didn't think it was possible.
This hit me—I'm really thinking, no matter what happens, I hope my H can see I value him as a person. I hope I have changed how I treat him like I think I have... I may need to travel back through your thread.
