I honestly relish in the fact of them going to these places and doing these things thinking "yeah you had a great time on my planned dates. Hope you enjoyed me all over your entire relationship."
That made me laugh I love May's advice here to continue being in the moment, laugh when you can, all of that, but also, you know, you're gonna cry in the shower sometimes! You get to experience all of the emotions because you're human. It's hard for me to separate how H might see me through all this (what I project) versus what's actually going on in my head sometimes (I just cried in the parking lot and now I'm home and happy!). But in your sitch I'm pretty sure that the graceful and funny and strong WF is the most consistent version of WF he's seeing. I mean, that's what the car radio anecdote is all about!
I love May's advice here to continue being in the moment, laugh when you can, all of that, but also, you know, you're gonna cry in the shower sometimes! You get to experience all of the emotions because you're human. It's hard for me to separate how H might see me through all this (what I 