Ok - I know the reason is not happy about text messages today.
He feels that they are controlling. I'm telling him what to do - it's my fishing boat, its my motorcycle, don't have her at my house.
He reacted and texted because I am trying to control him.
Why can't I think of this when its 4am and I am waffling on what to say, how to say, do I say when I know in my head when in doubt do nothing... I didn't know for sure what to do... I was struggling and wondering why he questioned me 2 days ago "that I was still going right" in regards to my trip... it made me stress as one of his goals was to hurt me like I had hurt him.
I cannot undue it... it would be terribly stupid for me to text... sorry about the texts I'm sure that came across as controlling.. not a big deal... LAME
