It's better than apathy. Anger is a form of attachment. It's why I've been letting go of anger towards my ex. As I do so, I feel less and less attached to her.
Hmmm... his interactions over text certainly display some type of anger/frustration and I got that over the phone.
In person he is cold and business like. Even when he knows I need to call he answers slowly with a quiet suppressed "yes".
Maybe he is more detached and I'm just reading too much into the texts. Frankly he didn't need to say all that today - he could have ignored or simply said OK. He texted a lot back.
I realize that my saying "my fishing boat" and "my motorcycle" was probably laying claim to him which he did not like especially if he is convincing himself I didn't like to fish or ask to fish... I didn't take a lot of motorcycle trips with him. I was reluctant to drive on the highway with him.
IDK --- I need to get home tonight and work up a sweat and soak in the tub. I have the place to myself for at least 2 days and after today maybe longer. I suspect he is working tonight but I do not know for sure.