Originally Posted by Ready2Change
You are the reason he failed a test in middle school. They will blame you for everything

You are too focused on his emotional responses. Let him be angry...or whatever....emotions are a good sign. When they are emotionless, then they are detached. You need to get to detached first... He had a head start....you know you need to pass him.


So the fact that he is angry... writing me longer texts than he has in a long time... getting frustrated with me... getting annoyed that I would suggest he would bring her to my home... Him being emotional right now is a good sign???

He is very good at acting detached when he is in my presence. His face is blank but that didn't stop him from coming to find me before he left for work... to see what I was doing... it didn't stop him from several times trying to get onto my FB account.

I know I need to stop caring and detach. I was doing GREAT yesterday. I even didn't respond to HIS text. then suddenly in the early am hours my lack of sleep and emotions got the best of me..

I really can't believe he responded at all and usually it just a one liner... he really was angry enough to give a details.. and then he said he had to get back to work and then continued to text me.

Later he starts texting about a credit card he needs to pay and asking me about. I'm tyring to help and just end up apologizing which isn't what he wants to hear. I can tell in his voice he isn't just annoyed... he is angry.

I followed up with information he had asked me for... and I asked if there was any way he could pay the bill in full. He is hiding money and not wanting to cover expenses as I'm sure that is more money for his A.