Thanks IW, appreciate it. I am looking forward to when he and I are both at home and can really work on this together, and I can see functionally how things are going, and how we handle the pain points. I have an appt with my IC today (we had gone down to once every 2 weeks, so I wasn't supposed to see him this week) to talk it over, too. H doing phone session w his IC this weekend, I think. It's still been a big adjustment to talk so openly about feelings daily, but we are managing.