Hey Wolf,

look at it this way. You're a good guy, genuinely. You have a good foundation in many ways, and plenty of areas to improve on. I think it's natural for humans to see other humans as the source of their problems. On the other hand, maybe you should not be so quick to blame others. At this point in your sitch, maybe you should consider "loving your wife from afar". Don't argue and fight and carry on. Just do the right thing, always. Y

You played football right? Me too, and I coached high school for 6 years. Blocking and tackling are the fundamentals, hustle between drills, always do the right thing - not the easy thing. Discipline, commitment, hard work...remember 2 a days? Remember how we always said football teaches life lessons? Well we forget to use them! We get too cute, too caught up in the wrong things. Positive mental attitude (PMA) is something I used to preach and live. I'm doing it again now.

Thornton, thank you for speaking your mind. It was well put. I'm not mad at you LH19, but your message can be lost sometimes as a result of your communication style. I think you're here to help, why else would you still be here contributing and helping out all the newcomers?

Last edited by ovrrnbw; 03/06/20 04:22 PM.

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Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.