YOU CANNOT NICE HIM BACK. He is going to try to get you to just roll with things and give him what he wants. Do not capitulate in the thought that you can be nice and he will come back. Protect yourself. I am not telling you to squeeze every cent out of him you can, but do not just accept what he wants if it isn't fair and equitable.
You can make sure things are done fairly and still do so in a spirit of equability.
Hang in there, we know its tough. Things will get better.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
