Since BD 8 months ago, I've been focused on working out, GAL and becoming AMOAFWL.
When this all started, W had to go on anti anxiety meds just to be in the same room as me. We separated (though I see her daily as she runs a biz out of the house). Since that time, she has weaned off the meds completely. She still seems to want to D, and we've retained a mediator, but she speaks about it very infrequently. I just go about my business, act indifferently, and listen and validate as best as possible when she speaks to me.
It is difficult to tell where she's going or what's going on in her head, so I heed the advice of many here and don't waste much time trying to figure that stuff out.
She just walked into the room and told me she's going to a concert next week, and told me the names of those she was going with. Seems very odd behavior for someone who wants to terminate a relationship and D, but I just listened intently, wished her a good time, and went about my day.
