Hi

This is no way to know whats inside their head

They give mixed messages

sometimes totally absent sometimes nice and close

they are confused and sorting through the demons in their head

Consider using the time to heal you-
let him go..or work on letting go
read about letting go, 12 step programs are helpful when dealing with difficult people and situations
support groups, coaching or therapy
new hobbies, call or help someone else
church or spiritual, take up singing or music, dancing or gardening
cry share and detach

live for you-

you will heal despite his choice to leave or stay
we all do
just takes time and all you are going through is the path and process to acceptance-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow