they are confused and sorting through the demons in their head
Consider using the time to heal you- let him go..or work on letting go read about letting go, 12 step programs are helpful when dealing with difficult people and situations support groups, coaching or therapy new hobbies, call or help someone else church or spiritual, take up singing or music, dancing or gardening cry share and detach
live for you-
you will heal despite his choice to leave or stay we all do just takes time and all you are going through is the path and process to acceptance-
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