My wife hasn't sent anything as of yet. I have begun gathering necessary docs and sent some info along to the mediator.
If you don't want the D then do continue to prepare your part of it so you're ready if it's needed, but don't pressure W or even ask her about her part.
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We met with a realtor in early January, but there has been no follow-up from W wanting to get the home listed. If we are going to move forward and maximize price, now is the time to move and list our property.
Again if you don't want to D, then leave this be. You might be tempted to point out to her that now is the time to sell. Don't.
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Aside from these two things, I have noticed W reconnecting a bit with the kids and generally being more talkative with me (small talk), and I've seen glimpses of her "old self." She is also dealing with her unresolved issues from her adoption, and for the first time, mentioned to me that she was talking about this with her IC.
All good signs. I can't remember if this is in Michele's book or if one of the vets used to post it, but WAS's detach in this order- spouse first, kids second, family third, friends fourth. They reattach in reverse order. So you might want to give things more time to see where this is going (again- if that's what you want).
