KC, this is why expectations will always ruin you. No expectations. Remember, expect the worst, hope for the best. This is why you need to be in IC. You have to be able to deal with all of these emotions. And temper your expectations. And work through everything.
You aren't a fool. You are a cheated on spouse. It happens, even to those that think it never can.
" wth??? He is a married man...."
No he is a lying cheater. That is who he is. You keep seeing the wonderful man you met and married. He isn't that guy anymore. You can try to hold on for dear life to an ideal....or you can recognize the truth and reality and realize this is not someone you want to be with.
If I were you I'd move all of his stuff into the guest bedroom. Forget the boxes, leave them there. If he wants to move them he can.
Sorry KC, I know this is hard. But hand wringing isn't going to help. Now is the time more than ever that you need to act. And double down on DBing. Not for him, for you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
