Is there a DB-Ing way to see where H is at, hear what he’s thinking ....anything?? Without getting into the weeds with him. Today I feel like my detaching and his lack of presence in the house is solidifying the path to D. As much as I do understand that my behaviour has little to do with his crisis or his choices right now, I’m finding the deafening silence in the house WHEN he’s here unbearable at times. I feel like I’m still doing well in GAL...but something (other than the obvious LOL) seems off and intuition is telling me to poke the bear....I’m also aware that I could get more poop thrown at me. I’m not even looking for a R talk or anything specific just some sort of life beyond the shark eyes and hiding. Am I playing with fire? Any suggestions....is it really to continue leaving him alone?
