1st Anniversary of Limbo, Indecisive WAH (part 2)

[Pommy99]

Hey OG
Not good , found out today that OW has been contacting H again FaceTime/calls. His iPad rung with her number 10.30pm while he was away. I casually asked him today if he’d been in touch with her lately and he lied and said no. I started off calm and asked for respect and honesty as I knew he was being untruthful. He must’ve assumed I had no evidence to back up my assumption that they were in touch again. He’d deleted the call off his phone, he had no idea that it had rung on his iPad. He’s adamant she only called to see how he was and that they hadn’t been in touch for a couple of months. I’ve heard all these lies before. He’s adamant that she’s nothing to do with the way he feels about me.

I don’t know what to do about trial separation - we had agreed no dating/sex but I don’t even know if I trust that . In which case do I just tell him that it’s a full separation and a bridge to D? He is MO next weekend .