Thank you guys. I will apologize and no longer burden my kids. I will be the positive rock that's good being solo and not add to an already stressful situation. I am grateful for your words and I will mentally chew on them today.
SUPER fireman!
Not sure how much time you are getting with your kids but "being there for them" can sometimes means not actually spending time with them. Be sure to do things they like when you have time, have fun, show them somethin you enjoy, teach them something. And turn your phone off (I have been doing that with mine when I have them and can really feel how I am catching some extra gold).
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
