Got a text from D14 today asking if she could stay home tomorrow. Um okay but it isn't up to me since she lives with H. She said he wanted her to ask me to see if I was okay with it. Made me laugh. So he's never home, barely parents, has NO idea what is going on with her and now wants to know if I'm okay with her staying home.
I'm hearing he's aged, still drinking heavily and is supposedly back working two full time jobs. At BD he called me selfish and said it was time for him to take care of himself for a change. Told me he had to drink just to be able to live with me. I had this vision of reduced hours (he worked a lot to avoid me he says), a new exercise routine and lots of salads in his new improved life. Boy was I wrong.
