I think especially for the next 4 days I'm going to keep my cards close. He knows I have a terrible poker face. I can't lie about a thing... EVER! However, its a skill I'm learning.
The old me would have blown up the minute he stated he was staying with female friend who has "been there for him" and definitely wants him though he knows that would be a mistake and nothing that would last... I would have disagreed and crushed him with accusations... throwing phone logs at him... reminding him that when I made a comment about a post she placed on his page after he went out solo on NYE that seemed inappropriate that he laughed at me and didn't find it funny that I suggested something was amiss.
I figure the more I validate. The more his guard will come down and the truth will come out... it has in pieces.
I've simply stated I don't need to look at phone logs as I already know exactly what is happening... and he isn't denying. He also stated I needed to stay out of his business and he would stay out of mine because neither of us would be happy finding out what the other was doing... So I haven't come out guns blazing... but I've made it clear I'm aware.
While I've caught myself looking at my phone frequently for a follow up text from him, I literally have NOTHING to say to him period.
I will stay busy. I bought some different perfume. Some new super cute pj's that if he sees will make him wonder why I have something new... lol. I am working out and will plan to go on a hike both weekend days taking one of the dogs at a time since I can't walk them together.
You think he will be home before the 4 days is up... we will see but I will try not to be at home when he does.
