Firemann I hope you understand, I get on you because you are a lot like my WH, but less cheaty. I see all the potential of a great father there. All the potential of a self actualized person who is always striving to grow. But at the same time a man who fills holes with female company or other vices. A man that would rather blame others than be a real man and own his part, have enough humility to own his part out loud, and then make the effort to fix it. It's wonderful to see you making strides. You got this.

The only thing I'm going to say, is a good therapist doesn't arm chair diagnose people they haven't met themselves or have only met once. Be careful there. You know there is some merit to your daughter's concerns. Probably not all. But you two have a relationship. Parental Alienation is really about kids who have little to no contact and have a parent feeding them anxiety, fear, and anger. W seems like a handful, but not a scar my kids permanently to win handful. Seriously be very careful with this therapist.