He actually told me I should go out and date but he doesn't want to know about it... then why all the snooping on his part?
Hi KitCat,
We can't read his mind, but as a former walkaway partner, alleviating guilt may be part of it. If you're happily dating, his dating is no longer a transgression, and he's no longer partly responsible for your misery. That doesn't mean he wants to know all the gory details, e.g. ways your new partner is better.