First off, I don't necessarily agree with some of the things you have done or said thus far. But I certainly understand how we can make poor decisions when faced with one of the most emotional times in our lives.
That being said, I'm disappointed in some of the responses you have received from our fellow DBers.
LH - I'm assuming you are a perfect person and have all the answers. I'm curious because you just love to be sarcastic and publicly shame Wolf. Isn't this supposed to a forum for people to heal and support each other? If all you do is point and make fun of how Wolf is failing and doing things differently than you would, why do you even post on his thread? You come across as a bully, LH. Not cool.