Originally Posted by MoGirl


I don't think he will come back. He has already asked her to marry him. Which is crazy because he's still married to me. And if he wanted to come back, I don't think I can forgive him. All of the things he said to her, money he has spent on her, secret bank accounts he has opened. I just can't see myself forgiving him for all of this. This is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life.


We have a saying around here: "Believe nothing they say and only half of what they do".

Cheaters constantly profess their love for their OW/OM. They all spend money like fools. Some make marriage plans.

The marriage plans are the most absurd though. Still married but getting engaged to someone else...unbelievable.

Focus on your, your growth, your behavior, your 180s, your health, your happiness, your attitude, your healing.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.