KitCat, I hope you recognize and celebrate how far you have come in just a few weeks! Seriously, so much progress! I can hear your self-esteem surface!
Your husband reminds me of mine. Somehow everything ends up being my fault, or I could have done it differently, etc etc. I used to jump in to prove I was a great wife, or show how accommodating I could be, or try to fix everything. I've tried to work hard to change those habits. To expect him to own his own choices.
I wish we were allowed to contact each other. Wouldn't be great to GAL together?
That would be nice.... I don't really have a social life here as one bff lives 5hr away and the other is several states away. I will have plans to see them but since H has left all the responsibilities on me - ie the dogs. I don't get to flit in and out like he does.
But, I think my being gone out of the house has helped me. I just feel like I'm hovering when he is here. He will be gone for the next 4 days and I'm relieved at this point. Mostly because i can relax in my own home. I'm sure I will be frequently checking my phone for texts or misses calls... one step at a time.
