Well done. I do not believe he'll be gone for 4 days!
We will see... I expect him to do the same as last weekend... and just show up on Sunday 2hr before he has to go to work again. I will not text or call... he can have all the space be wants.
Right now I'm irked that he isn't getting to bed and getting sleep and getting up to work. He is burning the candle at both ends and holding me responsible. He can be gone for 4 days.
And this OW is nothing. Do you know why he fell so hard for me and thought I was a goddess??? Because i was not easy to get. He had to work hard for the first date and even harder for the second. OW is pursuing my H when he is at a vulnerable point. Sure he leaned on her to express his frustrations in our relationship... but she pursued him... she has made it to easy for him and he will be bored soon enough.
Ok.. rant over... next 4 days are about me!!!
KitCat, I hope you recognize and celebrate how far you have come in just a few weeks! Seriously, so much progress! I can hear your self-esteem surface!
Your husband reminds me of mine. Somehow everything ends up being my fault, or I could have done it differently, etc etc. I used to jump in to prove I was a great wife, or show how accommodating I could be, or try to fix everything. I've tried to work hard to change those habits. To expect him to own his own choices.
I wish we were allowed to contact each other. Wouldn't be great to GAL together?
the best apology is changed behavior. *************** me: 45 h: 48 m: 23 T: 26 DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019
