Thank you peacetoday. Your post reminds me how comforting and empowering it is to “take care of business”. I’ve managed to erase some of my fear and emotions and get going on the process of protecting me as best I can. H has done nothing but constantly threaten that his L will be in touch, threaten to get an agent into the house, started looking at homes...so I know it’s no longer a matter of “if” he goes but “when” and “how” ...(does it play out..if only I had that crystal ball!!) I’ve had a great couple of really strong days, work is going really well and I’ve had some wonderful dinners with friends. I’m seeing so clearly right now and feel very in control of my emotions for the first time since August! I have found a L I like and will retain her shortly. have found some very helpful paperwork that I didn’t think I would have access to (big win) and I just generally feel some strange sense of peace right now. I hope it’s not fleeting.
