So I went out the winery... enjoyed 1 glass and 3hr of music. It was a very small crowd. The woman playing had more of her family there than audience but she was good and sweet and very entertaining.

I stayed till the end because I wanted to be good and sure H was out the door to work before being back home.

I get home... he is still in bed. He should have been on the road 1 1/2hr ago. I go into the bedroom and tell him he did not get up for work. I left the room.

Normally I would have stepped in and helped pack his cooler and start his coffee. But I vacated the area. The dogs were super worked up having been in the kennel for the last 6hr. So I took them both to my S18's room and hung out there. S18 was in shower and he had his new 3D printer going.

At one point I heard my H shout out something along the lines of "do you f'in hate me". Now I could have been wrong as I was in another part of the house and it might have been the same time the puppy was running back and forth from where I was and the kitchen.

H walks into the hallway toward S18's room. I still have my coat on because i literally just got home myself.

H: so this is where you are hiding out now?
Me: I'm watching S18's 3D printer working...
H: Is S18 in the shower (H is literally standing by the bathroom door)
Me: Yes
H: Well I want to know how the hot water is, I turned the scald guard down ((again we already know this see the conversation from this morning))
Me: I will ask him when S18 gets out.

H goes out the door to work.

Now, any other day I have been home lately H would just go out the door for work and not say a thing. He was probably fishing to find out where I had been for another night. Sadly, I wish he had just gotten up and been at work. I very honestly did not want to see him.

I won't have to see him for 4 days. His suitcase is packed and as far as I can tell he only took work clothes for the entire time.

Part of me wants to text that the S18 said the hot shower was working fine... but NOPE. That is not a reason to contact him. IF he really wanted to know he could text S18 himself.

I'm going to try to get some sleep.