He then says are you heading out... I clearly dressed and wearing boots but I doubt he REALLY looked at me. I said yes. I continued doing housework... Nice! You didn't tell him when/where/why.
Well he stopped asking last night. I think when he would ask before it was just a reflex... we had been together 10yr... it sort of comes out... where were you.
Last night he did not ask...though he tried to snoop... today he did not ask... I think he is in the part of not caring????
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Me: did you know the stinker bought a 3D printer? H: Yes Me: He told you but not me? It apparently arrived 2 days ago. H: You learn things when you take out recycle. Ok... whatever.
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Was he expressing resentment? Maybe. If you're aiming for reconciliation you want him to express resentments. It's hopeless when they don't care enough to do that. You took it in a defensive, dismissive way.
He waa not being resentful... his tone was cold and detached. Like he was reading facts from encyclopedia. I just let it go... rolled off my back.
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Woah! I thought you didn't want to divorce--why are you pushing him on the paperwork?!?! Did the previous maybe-resentment get under your skin and prevent a simple "I bet!" in response. Why are you the one taking the conversation into a negative, divorce direction?
He had asked for the paperwork... I already knew he got it without me... my statement was to acknowledge that he asked me for it and I had been too busy to do it last night like he wanted.
There is absolutely no reason to leave the home magazine or the sleep number bed stuff out on table... it could stay in his truck or cooler. I mean I already know he is house hunting... he is simply rubbing my face in it.
